Shani Farmer is an enthusiast who is dedicated to helping women align their relationship goals with their values and long-term vision for their life. She is an advocate for healthy growing relationships and she uses kingdom principals to educate women on navigating love in our culturally diverse society.  Her affection towards healthy relationships is no fad. Her love for deep dialogue, feminity and chivalrous men began early in her youth but not without the many lessons that came with it; a broken heart, infidelity, lack of godly love and respect are just a few behaviors she endured throughout her journey. After accepting her own vigorous maturation process, Shani became a woman on a mission; her ultimate desire was to redefine love for self and to understand the godly code of dating with purpose. In 2015 she was met with what she calls “A man who was willing” willing to date different,  willing to create a new vision and willing to take the journey of dating with purpose. Her husband now says “Her “P” got me. 

In 2017, Shani became an Amazon best-selling contributing author to “Dear Fear 2: 18 Lessons On Living On The Other Side Of fear.

Shani‘s story was powerful, inspiring and empowering! the words flowed straight from heart to mine. I immediately connected with her journey because it was so much like my own.i could feel Shani‘s vulnerability and relate to the raw passion she poured into her chapter. I could also feel her strength . The healing from the heartbreak she endured and the lessons she learned along the way inspired me to not let fear have my truth. Shani‘s courage sparked a fire in me and empowered me to be brave and fearless as I walk confidently into all that God has for me.” – Gabby Miller

She inspires many women to be fearless in owning their truth. In 2018 she shared her story at notable colleges and universities, women organizations, podcast and her social media platform, Kiss and Tell by Shani L. In 2019, Shani became recognized as an International Speaker, as she accompanied many leaders on the Fearless in Abu Dhabi Tour. She continues to build her movement through her Power of the “P” signature program, speaking engagements and intimate events.  

Out of all of her passions, Shani is most enthusiastic about her loving husband Benjamin farmer, fur baby Joy and supportive family and friends. 


  • Tonya
    22nd Feb.

    Your style is very unique compared to other people I have read stuff from.
    Thanks for posting when you’ve got the opportunity, Guess I’ll
    just book mark this blog.

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